Self-Compassion as a key competence for the future

Location/Date
Vienna (Austria) – please contact us for the next dates

Course Overview

In times of constant change and increasing demands, leaders are expected to remain resilient, clear, and grounded. The ability to bring kindness and non-judgmental awareness to one’s own experience—self-compassion—is emerging as one of the most vital inner skills for the future.

This program offers leaders a space to reconnect with themselves, to explore their own patterns of stress and self-criticism, and to discover the strength that arises from kindness. Rooted in mindfulness and the pioneering work of Jon Kabat-Zinn, Kristin Neff and Chris Germer, the course nurtures the inner qualities that allow leaders to act with wisdom and presence, even in complex environments.

Alongside mindfulness and self-compassion practices, the program draws inspiration from Social Presencing Theater (SPT), developed by Arawana Hayashi within the framework of Theory U. Through simple, embodied practices, participants can access a deeper awareness of their own inner states and of the “stuck patterns” that often limit authentic leadership. These explorations help cultivate a leadership presence that is more grounded, open, and attuned to the emerging future.


What the program offers

Through guided practices, structured exercises and reflection, you will:

  • Strengthen self-awareness – Cultivate the ability to notice your inner landscape of thoughts, emotions, and body sensations with openness and curiosity.
  • Regulate stress and restore energy – Develop simple yet powerful tools to remain centered and balanced in demanding situations.
  • Transform inner dialogue – Replace patterns of self-criticism with an attitude of kindness and encouragement that sustains growth.
  • Deepen embodied presence – Use SPT-inspired practices to sense your body as a compass for clarity, alignment, and grounded decision-making.
  • Access resilience in difficulty – Learn to respond to challenges with compassion rather than reactivity, turning obstacles into opportunities for growth.
  • Integrate mindfulness into daily life – Bring practices of breath, presence, and reflection into your leadership journey.

The course emphasizes personal transformation: when leaders cultivate inner clarity, compassion, and resilience, their influence naturally extends outward—shaping culture and inspiring others without effort or imposition.


Why this course matters for Leaders

  • Inner work as the foundation of outer impact: When leaders shift their inner state, their presence naturally influences the systems around them.
  • Embodiment as a pathway to awareness: SPT practices help leaders experience change not only intellectually, but also through the wisdom of the body.
  • Resilience for the future: Self-compassion equips leaders to meet complexity and uncertainty without losing themselves.
  • Sustainable personal development: By cultivating kindness toward oneself, leaders unlock a form of growth that is authentic, lasting, and transformative.

Approach & Methodology

The course is based on the methodological approach of experiential learning as a way to go deeper into the practice of mindful meditation, self-compassion and process inquiry allowing a deeper reflection, sharing of impact of the practices and appreciation of the experience.

A series of theoretical studies and research on the impact of meditation and in particular mindfulness and self-compassion will be shared and used as evidence to complement the individual and group experience.

Being the program is highly experiential, meditation, self-compassion exercises, SPT-inspired embodied practices, and appreciative inquiry are combined with research insights on mindfulness, self-compassion, and leadership.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment with openness, curiosity, and non-judgment. It trains our capacity to observe thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations as they arise, rather than being carried away by them. For leaders, mindfulness offers a way to cultivate clarity, inner stability, and presence—qualities that enable wise and grounded action even in times of complexity.

Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is the skill of relating to ourselves with kindness and understanding, especially when we face difficulties, mistakes, or setbacks. Instead of fueling stress through self-criticism, self-compassion nurtures resilience, courage, and emotional balance. Leaders who practice self-compassion discover that true strength is not hardness, but the capacity to remain human, open, and supportive toward oneself—an inner stance that radiates naturally outward.

Social Presencing Theater (SPT)

Developed by Arawana Hayashi within the context of Theory U, Social Presencing Theater (SPT) is a set of embodied practices that make visible the often invisible dynamics of our inner and collective life. Through simple movement and awareness exercises, SPT allows leaders to sense “stuck” patterns and to connect with the deeper wisdom of the body. This embodied awareness supports a shift from reactive behavior to creative presence, opening space for new possibilities to emerge.

The learning environment also integrates sensory support—including, where appropriate, dōTERRA CPTG essential oils—to enhance focus and well-being.


Facilitated by Paola Bortini 

Paola is a leadership coach, trainer, and mindfulness practitioner with over two decades of experience in adult learning and organizational development. Her work bridges evidence-based mindfulness and self-compassion practices with embodied approaches such as Social Presencing Theater (SPT). Paola has trained with leading teachers including Jon Kabat-Zinn, Kristin Neff, Chris Germer, and Arawana Hayashi, and brings a deep commitment to creating spaces where leaders can reconnect with themselves, cultivate inner resilience, and develop a more compassionate presence. She is known for her warm, clear, and inspiring facilitation style that integrates intellectual insight with practical, lived experience.

Fee & Logistics

Tuition: €590 (VAT included, course materials provided)
Participants arrange their own accommodation—we’re happy to assist with recommendations in Vienna.

Testimonials

The resources within us

The experience of this course was truly enriching for me. Among the changes I noticed was a deeper appreciation for the feeling of understanding and listening—to both myself and others.

I shifted some of my priorities and definitely adopted a new mindset—not so much trying to eliminate uncomfortable feelings, but instead welcoming them or at least learning to remain present with them.

I realized that many of the resources we desperately seek outside ourselves, sometimes for a lifetime, can actually be found within. I understood that much of our personal despair stems from feeling ill-equipped to face life’s challenges, which leaves us feeling alone and isolated. This course highlighted that, just as we do, all others also experience moments of feeling misunderstood and overlooked—moments that push us toward self-protection and withdrawal.

I know I am still far from mastering these important capacities, but I have learned to respect the time required. I accept my own pace of learning and feel fortunate to have received both a map and a direction

I am grateful to Paola for the warm atmosphere that pervaded the group during the course. I have already recommended this course to colleagues and family, because I believe it helps uncover important resources that elevate one’s quality of life.

“I realized that many of the resources we desperately seek outside ourselves, sometimes for a lifetime, can actually be found within.”
Elisa,  June 2023


Transforming criticism into compassion

The practice of Mindful Self‑Compassion allowed me to become less critical—towards both myself and the people around me, whether in personal or professional settings. I developed a more open and compassionate attitude toward the experiences of others, and I learned to treat myself with greater kindness, especially when I make mistakes or face anxiety-inducing challenges.

Paola guided us on this journey, fully embodying the principles of self-compassion. I am deeply grateful to her for encouraging me to continue and deepen the program, for her availability, and for her ability to perceive and respond to discomfort within the group in a deeply compassionate way. She offered not only understanding, but also a gentle, human reinterpretation of the suffering we were experiencing.

Finally, I feel that Paola—and her words—have become part of those who have helped me grow, especially in moments when my own personal qualities were acknowledged, thereby nurturing my ability to cultivate happiness.

Self-compassion helps cultivate happiness.
— Monica, Spring 2025

A journey of change

I participated in the  course without knowing exactly what to expect—but it turned out to be a transformative experience that changed my life.

Paola created a perfect atmosphere for learning and for deeply listening to myself and others. I felt supported in sharing very intimate moments connected to joys, sufferings, and fears.

The way I relate to myself and to others elevated to a new level. I understood that compassion isn’t only about feeling something for others, but also for myself—and this realization revolutionized my life.

I am deeply grateful for this unique experience, which will have a lasting impact on my life.

With much love and gratitude.

“In the silence, I found my voice”
— Lili, Spring 2025

Starting from Myself!

I decided to take some time for myself: that’s where I began!
Right after the beginning of the course, a question echoed in my mind:
How can I be kind to others if I’m not kind to myself?

Starting from myself—lovingly, compassionately—to come closer to others through a deep listening to what is, just as it is.
Re-discovering a rich silence, an open gaze, a respect for both my own and others’ boundaries.
I can wait, I can stay, I can move forward.
I can even “not do”—and still remain present.

Paola: grounded, embracing, sensitive, insightful, and gently present woman by my side—like someone who “breathes you in,” who “hears you,” and waits… for you to ask—always with respect and professionalism.

A journey that is simple and at the same time profound
— Silvia, Spring 2025